The first step towards reconciliation

Since my dad died, my relationship with my in-laws has become increasingly strained. Unresolved hurts and anger have simmered below the surface and I have found it almost impossible to forgive perceived wrongs and move forward. Instead of talking, I have pushed them further away and become increasingly hostile; instead of trying to resolve and heal the hurts, I have pushed them under the surface and allowed them to erupt in digs and angry words. I have behaved badly, I admit. Today I have taken a step towards resolution and invited them for Sunday dinner and a chance to talk.